Pretend Friends with Fake Smiles
What is a real friend anyway? Have you had that friend that lets you pay for everything and take care of everything while they just sit there? The truth is even if you want to help that friend you probably can’t. In the end it will probably just hurt you more than anything.
Or do you have the friends that laugh and smile and want all your information, so they can stab you in the back and not think twice. Those ones were never really your friend anyway. Those are the type of people who will do anything to get your position. They will hang your dirty laundry out for everyone to see even if it’s not true.
Or even do sexual favors to get ahead of you. Most of the time it works for them for a while. Those are the kind of friends that wait for you to walk out the room than talk about what kind of clothes you have on and most likely call you ever name but your name. The people that believe them are probably just like them. Well there’s nothing people can do about others who are self-centered and shallow minded, but you can hold your ground.
For all the favors she is giving away, she’ll eventually have a sore mouth. Sometimes you even have the friends that sit across the street and talk to you just to find out everything that’s going on. As they sit there to see if your curtains are open to see if your home. Those are the crazy ones. I suggest you carry a stun gun. Those are the ones that go in your job and tell them that you’re not sick, but you ordered pizza and had friends over. Whatever you do watch out for those ones they look like the Walking Dead and enjoy spitting venom on you as much as possible. Most of the time they don’t have a life of their own.
In the end if you play your cards right you will be the last one standing. That person may have more friends because people like juicy gossip. Don’t get me wrong it will be a struggle, you can lose your job, and even your friends over it. But, just hold your ground and stand tall, a strong woman never backs down. To tell you the truth it doesn’t matter how much money you have, but when you’re around this person who’s backstabbing you. Always makes sure they think you are doing fantastic and smile anyways. It always hits ’em where it hurts. As for the friend you’re always trying to help, stop helping them, they got to learn for themselves. The way I look at it they fantasize about you probably in all kind of crazy ways. So, if you stay stronger than them, they can’t knock you down, and if they do, get back up. That is the power of being a woman. Till next time my readers.